Author Archives: Natalie Bennett

A brave woman and an inventive lawyer

A fascinating case reported today in which a young Sikh woman whose life was made an absolute misery by her mother-in-law used legislation originally designed for stalkers to win £35,000 compensation.

“A devout Sikh who entered into the marriage willingly, Ms Singh said she had accepted she would live with her husband’s family – but her mother-in-law’s campaign of torment led to serious health problems and the breakdown of the marriage in March 2003.
She was forced to do menial housework for hours and was kept a virtual prisoner in the house, beginning her domestic duties at 6.30am. Ms Singh told the court her mother-in-law called her a “poodle” and contrived a work routine – including cleaning toilets without a brush – designed to “exhaust and humiliate” her.
Ms Singh claimed that she was not allowed to visit the local Sikh temple, and was allowed only four short visits home to her parents in the weeks after her wedding. She said her telephone use was limited and her calls monitored.
The court also heard that Mrs Bhakar forced her daughter-in-law to have her hair cut to shoulder length, despite knowing her religious beliefs forbade it.”

The mother-in-law in the case had lived in Britain for decades, so while there is undoubtedly a clash of cultures here, as an abuser she can have had no excuse of lack of knowledge of British laws and norms.

From the mailbox

Dr Johnson’s House has a swish new website. It’s an independent charity in London, a great house, an astonishing survival, and well worth a visit. (I went to a talk there last year – must get to another this year – they’re usual excellent.)

The criminal misunderstanding is fear of crime

Over on Comment is Free I’ve got a piece arguing that you are less likely to be a victim of violent crime in Britain today than at any time in history. There’ve been surprisingly few commenters disagreeing with me… but perhaps Guardian readers are better informed than most.

A visit to the V&A Islamic gallery

Over now on My London Your London an account of my weekend visit to the new Islamic gallery at the Victoria & Albert Museum. Well worth making a special trip to see it. As every, it was the odd little quirky items that I really liked, the ones they never have postcards of.

Suggestions on ISPs

Since Orange has again been flakey over the weekend, I’m increasingly serious about changing ISPs, so posted a question on a specialist bulletin board. A very sensible comment was made that if you want service you need one of the small ones, not the big monoliths, and there’ve been several recommendations that I’ll be looking at this week.

Fear for the women of Afghanistan

With state of the whole country bring described by a British general as close to anarchy, there’s more bad news specifically for women:

AFGHANISTAN’S notorious Department for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice, which was set up by the Taliban to enforce bans on women doing anything from working to wearing nail varnish or laughing out loud, is to be re-created by the government in Kabul….
President Hamid Karzai’s cabinet has approved the proposal to re-establish the department, and the measure will go to Afghanistan’s parliament when it reconvenes later this summer. The conservative complexion of the assembly makes it likely to be passed.
“When we talk of ‘vice and virtue’ . . . the one introduced by the Taliban comes to our minds. But it won’t be like that,” insisted Mohammad Karim Rahimi, a spokesman for the president. …
Nematullah Shahrani, the religious affairs minister who will oversee the department, claims it will focus on alcohol, drugs, crime and corruption. But critics point out that Afghanistan’s criminal laws already address these issues and say that once the department has been re-established, it will be easy to misuse.