Author Archives: Natalie Bennett

The horror of forced marriage

The cases that generally get attention are those in which the women end up dead, or grossly physically injured, but the practice also causes enormous psychological injury.

The girl, from Peterborough, was subjected to moral blackmail by her parents who said they would kill themselves if she did not marry the cousin she had never met.
The judge told the High Court in London: “She was kept in a remote part of Pakistan for many months and, despite begging her parents to be allowed to return to this country, she was subjected to unrelenting pressure, initially from her mother and subsequently by her father, as also from other members of the wider family.”… “She was subject to continued emotional pressure and moral blackmail, applied over many months,” the judge said. “Her will was overborne.”

Rightly, her marriage has been annulled, but that doesn’t mean she is free, for her solicitor told the court:

“I had to meet her in a Jobcentre to get instructions on the case because there was no other way to meet her. I, a white middle-class lawyer could not go to her home to meet her,” she said.
The woman is still living with her brothers who, Ms Hutchinson said, were in control. “She is cowed by her parents. She has to be terribly careful,” the solicitor said.

The woman is now 20, so it is probably too late for social services to intervene, but there must surely be some way of giving her some genuine freedom.

When is a tuk-tuk not a tuk-tuk

If it is running in Britain with “roll bars, side-impact protection and seatbelts”, and fixed, non-exploitative fares, is a tuk-tuk still a tuk-tuk?

A great Cleopatra; pity about the Antony

Over on My London Your London I’ve just put up my review of Antony & Cleopatra at the Globe, from press night last night. Frances Barber is a very fine Cleopatra, but the men don’t match up. As I say over there, whether you think that justifies three hours on the wooden benches might depend on your sexuality and gender.

Break out the champagne…

… for the 18th Carnival of Feminists is now up, on Ink and Incapability. And it is a beauty.

There are some great ideas there – the South African anti-rape pill (for men, of course); some great controversies – what’s women’s role in creating sexist men? and, some great accounts of women’s victories, including those of a young retail assistant who could well and truly stand up for herself.

Do check it out, and as ever, please help to spread the word!!

One more blow to women’s pensions

Women have traditionally married men a few years older than them, but it looks like this is one more now mal-adaptive social practice. A report out of Australia makes one of those obvious but important points, when the men retire, they strongly tend to want their wives to retire at the same time, which further reduces (after children, caring responsibilities etc) their pension contributions, and hence final pensions.

The median superannuation balance for women aged over 65 is less than 5 per cent of that saved by men of the same age, according to the study by the Melbourne Institute’s Diana Warren and the Australian Government Office for Women.
“We’re at last seeing that disruptions to work from family and other matters are far more likely to affect women than men,” said Julie Bishop, the Minister Assisting the Prime Minister for Women’s Issues.
“Women are more likely to be pressured into early retirement by their partners, doctors and employers than retire from their own decisions.”

Women, however, want the men to stay at work for as long as possible. The cynics will say this is for many but I suspect the desire for personal space has a lot more to do with it – lots of marriages break-up, or get very unhappy, when the couple are forced together on the retirement of one or both.

The King is Dead, Long Live the Queen

My 19th-century blogger, Frances Williams Wynn, is today reporting on on the death of William IV and the accession of Queen Victoria. She’s displaying her typical bluntness about the king’s sins, but thinks he had a good death:

It is very interesting to compare the appearance of the town now, with that which it wore after the death of George IV.; then few, very few, thought it necessary to assume the mask of grief; now one feeling seems to actuate the nation ; party is forgotten, and all mourn, if not so deeply, quite as unanimously, as they did for Princess Charlotte. After a few days of short unsatisfactory bulletins, a prayer for the King was ordered, and sent with pitiful economy by the two-penny post, so that, though the prayer appeared in every newspaper of Saturday evening, it was received by hardly any of the London clergy in time for morning service on Sunday. In our chapel, prayers were desired for Our Sovereign Lord the King, lying dangerously ill; and these introduced in the Litany just as they would have been for the poorest of his subjects!

I love that line about the two-penny post…