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Feminism

Getting what you wish for …

An astonishingly bitchy piece today in the Telegraph – up even to Daily Mail standards of misogyny – about how men are said to be giving up on “trophy wives” because they keep “going bad”… becoming, (add horror movie music here) toxic wives.

“It is like a perversion of the evolution theory: they have evolved into creatures whose function is simply to get the most for doing the least,” whispered an exhausted husband to me recently. “I wouldn’t mind providing her with so much if she just did something for me occasionally. She’s never even once cooked me a meal.”

Well if you want a woman who is 40 but looks like she’s 21, with the breasts, thighs, and face to match, she’s going to have to spend pretty well every minute of the day attending to that – and she mightn’t have time to keep up with French philosophy or gourmet cooking.

If you seek a capable woman and turn her into your dependent, she’ll probably turn out at being good at getting things out of you, just as she was once good at her job.

It is called getting what you wish for…

And although it is not entirely clear from the website, I suspect that this is in the “news” section: MSM journalism really is going down the tubes…

Feminism Science

How can a uterus transplant be justified?

There’s been angst in Britain recently about the problem of regulating IVF – how do you balance patients’ frequent desperation to have a child, the health risks they may be running for themselves and, even more morally problematic, for the possible child-to-be, and the frequently exceedingly high costs to society.

Now it is going further – doctors in the US are contemplating a womb transplant.

Now kidney transplants, liver transplants, even, perhaps, heart transplants; they are all morally unproblematic so far as I’m concerned. Without them, the patients are highly likely to die. They choose for understandable reasons to take the significant medical risks (the operation, the continuing immune-suppression drugs etc) in the hope of many years of relatively healthy life.

But what of a woman who is entirely healthy but happens not to have a functional uterus for one reason or another? Should she be allowed to subject herself to two major operations (the implanting of the donor organ, and its later planned removal), the potential, largely unknown risks to any foetus being developed in that womb, and the huge cost – all so she can bear a child herself, when she has many other opportunities – adoption, even surrogacy?

I think not. And perhaps that final argument is the strongest. How many lives of women could that cash save?

On Radio Four’s PM tonight, there was an item about the first anniversary of the inauguration of Ellen Johnson Sirleaf in Liberia, Africa’s first female head of state. It focused on her campaign against rape, and its notable lack of success.

At the account’s centre was the story of an 11-year-old who died many months after a rape in which she had probably suffered an abdominal fistula due to its violence. (An outcome of rape on which I had written elsewhere.)

How much cash would have paid for treatment to save her life: £100 would probably have done it. You’d get a lot of such treatments for the cost of one uterus transplant…

(A report on the problem of rape in Liberia. (Some may find this account traumatic.)

Feminism

A revealing glimpse into America

Some of America’s cheerleaders are being legally forced to cheer for girls’ teams as well as boys’ – and it seems quite a few of them are unhappy about it.

Whitney Point is one of 14 high schools in the Binghamton area that began sending cheerleaders to girls’ games in late November, after the mother of a female basketball player in Johnson City, N.Y., filed a discrimination complaint with the United States Department of Education. She said the lack of official sideline support made the girls seem like second-string, and violated Title IX’s promise of equal playing fields for both sexes….
Rosie Pudish, the parent who filed the original complaint,… said that as many as 60 cheerleaders, along with their friends and parents, would attend the boys’ games, injecting a level of excitement and spirit that was missing from the girls’ contests.
“It sends the wrong message that girls are second-class athletes and don’t deserve the school spirit, that they’re just little girls playing silly games and the real athletes are the boys,” said Ms. Pudish, an accountant who works for the federal government.

Sounds entirely reasonable to me – although I wonder where are the male cheerleaders, if it is, as its defenders claim, such an athletic and interesting activity.

Feminism History

Medea was not a child-killer

During last week’s flu slump I was reading a couple of Kerry Greenwood’s “Delphic Women” series, imaginative retellings of Ancient Greek myths, Medea and Cassandra. The latter of course is about the fall of Troy, told through the view of the female seer and Diomenes, a healer with the attacking barbarian Achaeans, among whom is the clearly psychopathic Achilles. (Yes, it does turn things around rather, not just from point of view.)

But it was Medea that particularly struck me, not so much for the retelling in the first person, but for the author’s afterword:

This seems to have been the story, according to such diverse authorities as the travel writer Pausanius, Apollodorus, Kreophylas, Parmeniskos and an anonymouse but learned commentator on Pindar. Medea, grand-daughter of Helios (the Sun) held Corinth in her own right. Jason was her consort. He decided to marry Glauke and Medea arranged her murder. Recklessly, she also managed to start a fire which killed Creon, king of Corinth and father of Sisyphos, and possibly a number of other people – but not Jason, regretably. Medea fled with her children to the temple of Hera on the hill, and either the kin of Creon or the Corinthian women flocked to the temple and stoned her children to death – in the temple.
They either would not or could not touch Medea, and she left Corinth and went to stay with Herakles, thence to Delphi and after that to various other places before she went home to Colchis to put her father on the throne.

Looking around, I found that the Jason in these accounts is far from the myth that has proved so popular in the West in recent centuries:

Jason does not want to go; in fact, the voyage terribly depresses him. He dislikes everything about it. He is “utterly un-heroic” (often described as amêchanos, “helpless”). Once he is lurching on his way, though, he does want to succeed, and chooses nonheroic means to do so, exploiting love and preferring circumvention to the more usual heroic confrontation (136). Opportunistic when he is not depressed, Jason will be pious, if success requires piety, or treacherous, if piety fails.*

Greenwood says that the turn-around in the story is entirely due to Euripides, who was paid five talents to write his play this way by the city of Corinth in an early piece of what turned out to be hugely effective propaganda.

Of course we are in the realm of myth here, not history, although there are probably scraps of it hidden in there somewhere. Still, it is interesting that one of the great tales of our culture started out so differently. Greenwood attributes the triumph of the child-killer version to Euripides’ brilliance, which is undoubtedly part of the story. But it is also not hard to see how a tale that demonises a goddess worshipper, a strong, powerful “action woman”, while playing up the male hero won out over one with a female hero and a weak and venal male villain.

Interestingly, however, in other places the older legend has survived in strength to the current day. Wikipedia notes that: “Medea is considered a great hero in today’s Georgia. She is revered and emulated by both Georgian men and women.” (Colchis, her home city, was in the west of the modern state.)

What about the Greenwood books? Well these are very much “popular” retellings – great fun, as her books usually are, but a little too close to the romance genre for my taste. She writes a much better detective novel with her Phyrne Fisher series. (The heroine named of course for the famous Greek courtesan.)

*Gods and Heroes of the Greeks: The Library of Apollodorus, Leonard Baskin, Michael Simpson, Apollodorus; University of Massachusetts Press, 1976, pp. 63-64.

Feminism

A defence of women’s prizes

In today’s Guardian: Art is still male-dominated, and its sensibilities and judgements controlled by centuries of male-dominated theory.

Containing a great Rimbaud quote from 1871 that I hadn’t previously encountered:

“When women’s unmeasured bondage shall be broken, when she shall live for and through herself, man – hitherto detestable – having let her go, she, too, will be poet! Woman will find the unknown! Will her ideational worlds be different from ours? She will come upon strange, unfathomable, repellent, delightful things; we shall take them, we shall comprehend them.”

Feminism

A short, miserable life

Reported in the Independent today, the short life and brutal death of a 19-year-old Pakistani bride, Sabia Rani, transported from her rural village (where she’d had a few scant years of education) to 21st-century Britain, then brutally beaten to death, in a household with eight of her in-laws, for being unable to live up to her husband’s expectations about make-up, sandwiches and going to the supermarket.

When a “holy man” confirmed she was “possessed by evil spirits”, through touching an item of her clothing, that probably sealed her fate.

Khan told his work supervisor that he was unhappy with his marriage because he had been rushed into it, and soon began kicking and beating his wife.
Leeds Crown Court heard that Ms Rani’s injuries, similar to those of a car crash victim, were so severe that she would have been in constant pain and ill for at least three weeks before she died.
Yet Khan’s sister said she had seen no evidence of injuries. She and Ms Rani had been great friends, she said.

Much is made of the difference between “forced marriage” and “arranged marriage”. Yet could poor Sabia Rani be said to have had any meaningful agency, any real choice?