Category Archives: Feminism

Feminism Science

Men’s biological clock

When a couple cannot have children, there has always been an assumption that the problem is with the woman. I can still clearly remember the look of pain on my grandmother’s face as she described the “horrible” tests she endured (this must have been in theThirties) – and for a “proper” woman of that era the embarrassment and humiliation must have been great.

Yet at some level, of course, there was always some knowledge, no matter how basic, that at least sometimes the man was the problem. (If he’d been through enough wives/mistresses without begetting a child this was even tacitly acknowledged.)

Even today, however, that is seldom acknowledged, so a French study about men’s declining fertility is particularly interesting:

A father aged over 40 “is a key risk factor for reproduction”. For women under 30, a male partner aged 40 or over reduced their chances of conceiving by a quarter; for women between 35 and 37, a partner over 40 reduced conception to a one-in-three possibility.

…over the past five years similar investigations in Britain and the United States have anticipated the French findings, and have also found late fatherhood to be riskier than traditionally assumed. One study found would-be fathers over 40 half as likely to make their partners pregnant as men under 25; another found fathers over 50 quadrupling the likelihood of having a child with Down’s Syndrome.

Feminism

How ‘experts’ under-rate the public

The ‘experts’ are convinced that women are just “forgetting” to have children, relying too much on the not-so-miracle cure of reproductive technology to have babies relatively late in life. A poll today in the Guardian shows that isn’t the case:

The poll makes it clear that people are not relying on fertility technology to allow them to have children later. Only 35% of men and women said they would think of delaying having children because of it.

The results show that while most people think it is best to have a baby before 30 (they are answering a question about the “ideal”), they simply are not making this their top priority – above, say, personal happiness, by perhaps grabbing the first vaguely appropriate partner who comes along.

On that line, Libby Brookes drags out that old story about “too much choice” stopping people forming partnerships. Stuff and nonsense – turn the lens around the other way, and realise that in the past there was very little choice, and people got stuck in all sorts of horrible relationships, sometimes even going into them knowing they would be pretty awful, but feeling they had no other option. Celebrate choice!

Feminism Politics

Child abuse by religious extremism and politics

A horrific story in the Sydney Morning Herald: the headline “A prisoner of family and the state” sums it up perfectly. Kylie Fitter was just 15 when she helped her father and brother kill their mother. That makes her sound like a monster, but in fact she was pure victim.

Kylie, born three months premature, already remained to her parents fragile and vulnerable. Sheltered from life, she was an introverted girl with no friends, or self-esteem, and little ability to think for herself. Her mother waited on her. Her father filled her head with extreme Christian beliefs. He was domineering, passionate about his God and his family. … Both Kylie’s parents suffered abuse as children. Out of love for their children, they kept them close and fiercely protected. They moved a lot; there were several schools, and charismatic churches. By 13 Kylie was on Prozac. She left school at 14, a social misfit, believing she was stupid, and in isolation filled her days playing computer games. Her brother was spiralling into schizophrenia, hearing “demons’ voices” and becoming fixated on harming his mother.

Where in the hell, one wonders, was social services? But the state’s role gets worse. Kylie was locked up (but not convicted on the ground that she was mentally ill) after the killing, for an indefinite term. Three times now, (and soon to be a fourth) medical experts have said that her mental state is basically healthy, and she is no threat at all (if indeed, removed from her family, she ever was). She has a family that has informally adopted her, is studying for a university degree, and after that horrific beginning has some sort of hope of building a life for herself.

One thing stands in her way. Politics.

In NSW, the power to release a forensic patient lies with politicians, who are subject to lobbying and voter backlash. …effective power resides with the Minister Assisting the Health the Health Minister, Cherie Burton. … This year she rejected all six recommendations for conditional release, insisting on more conditions, and more information. … In 2000, the Government released on strict conditions 70 per cent of those recommended by the tribunal; last year it freed only 30 per cent.

There’s an election this year.  The only hope might be that even in the increasingly rightwing, authoritarian Australia, the profound injustice here will lead to a change in the law, taking control out of the hands of politicians.

Meanwhile in Massachusetts, parents are suing a school for reading out a story in which  two men – prince and prince (nice) – find each other and live happily ever after. This, remember, is in a state that allows gay marriage, so this is perfectly in line with societal norms.

The suit filed in the US District Court in Boston on Thursday alleges violations of the federal civil rights of the two sets of parents, David and Tonia Parker, and Rob and Robin Wirthlin. All are devout Judaeo-Christians.

“I was concerned that I had not broached this topic with my young child yet and I was concerned that the point of view that was being presented was different from our family’s personal moral values,” Robin Wirthlin told a news conference.

All the more reason for your child to be given an independent moral framework, to learn that however odd and twisted his or her homelife, there are other options. Otherwise that child might end up separated from the world, unable to function in it, just like poor Kylie. Your child is not your possession, to be shaped into a form you think is appropriate. They are an independent human being who can, and must, develop a mind of their own. Any other result is tragedy.

Feminism

Yes, it is a ‘sexual’ disease. So? Why not eradicate it?

Good news on the cervical cancer vaccine: “new trial results from one of the two companies in a race to get a vaccine on the market show that older women will be protected too, although only against those strains of HPV to which they have not yet been exposed”.

Although that SHOULD be only a temporary need, since if you vaccinated all girls against the virus then it should, I suggest, be easy to send it the way of smallpox. Well except of course that the religious nutters will never let it happen, since this is a – gasp – sexually transmitted disease, and so protecting women against it is, to their minds, definitely a bad idea.

Anne Szarewski, clinical consultant at Cancer Research UK, who is recruiting for a comprehensive trial of the vaccine in women over 26, said yesterday that the results were good news, not least because some parents may be reluctant to have their daughters vaccinated against a sexually transmissible disease.

“I think there is going to be so much to-ing and fro-ing about the ethics and morality of vaccinating 13-year-olds that I think it would be much easier if we can vaccinate women who can make up their own minds,” Dr Szarewski said.

Odd that no one says that about the german measles vaccine, routinely given to girls about that age.

Meanwhile, Saudi women are seeing some small advances, as set out in this Independent article. Being able to work in a women-only lingerie shop mightn’t sound like much of an advance, but at least it would allow the workers to escape the home. And I bet you’d end up with the world’s best-educated lingerie salespeople.

To some, the lingerie debate encapsulates the ideological clash between government reformists pushing for freedoms and mullahs who fear where this may take Saudi society. While the latter hasresisted change, sometimes with violence, it is the reformers who appear to be winning.

The country’s National Society of Human Rights helped to create the first shelter for victims of domestic violence a year ago, and more are on the way.

Feminism

Being paid is better than not being paid

Zoe Williams in the Guardian this morning is rightly scathing about a survey that finds many women think “cleaning is better than sex”. All that proves is that if you ask the right question you can get any result you like from a survey. (And I bet it was done for a cleaning products company or similar.)

But she’s wrong, I think, on the subject of paid cleaners. She suggests everyone should just clean up after themselves, but the problem of course is that small children can’t, or the disabled, or many of the elderly, and there are still plenty of able-bodied adults around who just won’t.

That this is now paid work – albeit often badly paid – is an advance, for at least it puts some value on it, in the way our societies judge value. And since it is still overwhelmingly women who do the cleaning, that is a good thing.

Better than unpaid housework by women dismissed as “just housewives”.

Now you’re going to ask if I’ve ever had a cleaner. Only in Bangkok, where not to do so would be very odd. Left to my own devices, I’ve in the past been famous for the dustballs under my dining table. Now, I’ve got a dishwasher (life is too short to wash dishes), and when the dustballs build up I’ll sweep them up with the dirty clothes before they go in the washing machine…

Feminism Politics

Morning reading

Common sense on trafficking: police are threatening to report brothel customers for rape if they use the services of women they know to be trafficked.

Men who visit a sauna, brothel or flat where foreign prostitutes are working will be being asked to ensure the women are there of their own free will before they pay. If they suspect a woman is working against her will, they will be urged to contact Crimestoppers and provide police with the establishment’s location.

I won’t celebrate too much, however; I’ll wait for the first prosecution, and the first conviction.
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Proving that internet culture can break down even the most ingrained aspects of national cultural, The Times’s Japan correspondent reports on the behaviour of his very own “troll”.

Mr Kita (or “kitaryunosuke”, as he signs himself) plays a unique part in my life — he is my conscience, my nemesis and the closest thing I have had to a stalker. Early every morning, he logs on to the websites of the British newspapers and the BBC. He is interested in China, the Middle East and in coverage of Japan by foreign correspondents — especially, it seems, in articles written by me. These he carefully translates into Japanese and posts on to his weblog accompanied by the most violent and inventive abuse I have encountered in Japan.
It truly restores your faith in the Japanese language reading the things that Mr Kita writes about me, and his blog is an education. He’s called me a baka, of course, but that’s only the start of it. I have been denounced as a “charlatan”, a “rotten devil foreign reporter”, a “low-class foreigner” and — perhaps my favourite — “the private parts of The Times”.

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“Good” schools get that way by selecting “good” pupils. Talk to any parent looking for a school for their child and they know this, but a survey has, surprise, surprise, found that head teachers even admit that they ignore admissions rules supposed to stop the cherry-picking. I do like the Guardian’s angle on this bad behaviour:

Just about the only thing teachers and the government can unequivocally agree on these days is pupil behaviour. It’s getting worse and something needs to be done about it. Yet the third Headspace survey of headteachers, carried out by Education Guardian and EdComs, administered by ICM and published today, suggests some heads might care to reflect on their own behaviour before pointing the finger at their pupils.
Less than three-quarters of the 822 headteachers who responded to the questionnaire said their school’s governing body followed its admissions code of practice to the letter – 13% of secondary and 20% of primary heads said they “mostly” followed admissions procedures, while 4% of secondary and 2% of primary heads admitted they followed them only “to a limited extent”. Astonishingly, 5% of secondary and 2% of primary schools claimed not to follow any part of their admissions codes.

So the pupils they reject all get dumped together in neighbouring schools, which then have problems. Surprise, surprise.